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Living Like a Sheen
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Sitting here in shock
I come home from work tonight and my fiance, someone I've been with for over 7 years tells me she's leaving.
She was my life, and now she's left me. I'm just numb right now...I don't know what I'm going to do. |
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Semi Pro Sharp Shooter in Training
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All I can say is that everything happens for a reason. It just means there is someone else better is out there waiting for you.
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Commitment Coordinator
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Wish I had the words to tell you what to do, I don't but I can say that sucks
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"Mikie's always been one of our most versatile posters. He's a smart poster. He's been in a number of different situations and handles them all well. We have a lot of confidence in him whenever he's in the thread. He's a fast learner and he picks up things quickly." Bill Belichick |
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I'm sorry Whaler that's terrible news, don't get down on you're self
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Done. And. Done.
Tournaments Won: 19 Join Date: Jul 2005
Location: Circumlocuting around New England...
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I'm sorry to hear that. You're a good, solid guy; I hope that things look up soon.
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"You shall no longer take things at second or third hand, nor look through the eyes of the dead, nor feed on the spectres in books, You shall not look through my eyes either, nor take things from me, You shall listen to all sides and filter them from your self. " Walt Whitman, Song of Myself |
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Not a Member User
Join Date: Nov 2007
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Good luck, I hope you find the perfect woman for you.. this one was obviously not who you thought she was, and you don't deserve to be treated like that.. you deserve better. |
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WE ON
Join Date: May 2007
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Hang in there, buddy. It will suck, but you'll make it through.
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RIP MOM
Join Date: Aug 2008
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Whaler I've been in your shoes more than once, and it is heartbreaking thing to go through... You will be a stronger,smarter and better man because of this experience... Most importantly you will be better off without her in the long run... It just was not meant to be, and the exciting part in all of this is you are set free to find someone who wants to be your soulmate... Hang in there brother...
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I have nothing useful to say....
Join Date: Jun 2004
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That sucks dude. my fiance, girlfriend of 15 years, had to be kicked out last year. i feel your pain. I still feel it now.
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Just saw Sarah Jessica Parker w/o makeup
Join Date: Nov 2005
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Hang in there Whaler.
I can't get too specific.... but trust me, I know some married guys who wish their fiance had left (or they had left) before getting married. it's hard now, but with time and hindsight, you will probably see that there was something(s), even if they seemed small and insignificant/manageable that become reall big problems after X-years married and/or kids. Engaged and married are two entirely different things, believe it or not (in case you have never been married). I'm one of those married guys "I know", by the way... Good luck! it'll suck for a while |
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Houndsight is 20/20
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Get out of the house. Enroll in a class where you'll meet a different crowd. You have control of your life. God Bless...
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Registered User
Tournaments Won: 8 Join Date: Oct 2007
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I feel so bad for you Whaler. Seven years is a long time to put your heart and soul into a relationship. It's okay to grieve, because that's what you're feeling. Give yourself that time to go through the steps of sadness, anger, loneliness. But try to stay busy once the initial shock has worn off, and in time your life will move forward. Trust me on that.
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Pervertas Emeritus
Join Date: May 2005
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no woman is worth rucking yourself up over
they are ALL a terrible invention of a vengeful god every single LAST ONE OF THEM ![]() /bitteroldmanSTILLWAITINGforthosebewbiepicswasleadt obelievewerecomingforthwith ![]() |
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GhostGronk
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Sorry, man. Take some time to reflect and really force yourself to keep truckin'. It's going to be hard but you'll come through on the other side in one piece.
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A Product of the 70's
Join Date: Apr 2006
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Sorry to hear about that Whaler. Hopefully, today you are feeling a little better. Things do happen for reasons. Time away might be just what you need to realize that she wasn't the one. Take some time and let yourself heal. Don't jump into anything too quickly. Lots of good advice in previous replies.
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